Hi I show you all how to install desktop remote for youre vps i have 128 mb ram and its work fast
I dont no if it works for all vps i test it on debina 6 32 bit

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Update
Code:
apt-get update
Upgrade
Code:
apt-get upgrade
Ok. This link is for download and install the Gnome Desktop. That is very long step could use 4 h
Code:
apt-get install gnome-desktop-environment gdm x-window-system-core desktop-base
Ok After Its Install you write this
Code:
/etc/init.d/gdm start
Ok and desktop is on if you have windows and you want connect from windows remote control you write this
Code:
sudo apt-get install xrdp
Ok your done now you can login to your desktop from remote control have fun!